Title: Throwing the Bride’s Bouquet
General Information about Item:
- Customary Lore, wedding tradition
- Language: English
- Country of Origin: United States
- Informant: Bethany Burns
- Date Collected: 2-21-18
Informant Data:
- Harriette Hogue was born on March 23, 1940 in Chattanooga, Tennessee. Her mother was a schoolteacher and her father was an actuary. She lived in Chattanooga for the majority of her life, attended college in Chattanooga, Tennessee at the University of Chattanooga. She met her husband, Billy Hogue, at a sorority party at the University of Chattanooga. Billy lived in Fort Worth, Texas for most of his life and attended the Texas Tech before ending up in Chattanooga working for a bank. They both shared religious values, with Harriette attending the Episcopal Church growing up while Billy attended the Methodist Church growing up. Billy was willing to attend the Episcopal Church with Harriette once they married.
Contextual Data:
- Cultural Context: Brides often have a special bouquet at their weddings, and they typically have a few to several bridesmaids, which are their best friends that they choose to take part in their wedding. After the traditional wedding ceremony, there is typically a reception that follows with food and dancing.
- Social Context: This specific recipe was mentioned when the interviewee was asked about food recipes. Backpackers often share food recipes with one another. Often, the recipes shared are interesting and easy to make but use very simple ingredients because of the limited options in food items backpackers usually have on them.
Item:
- At the wedding reception, the bride has her bridesmaids line up around 10-20 feet behind her. She then turns around and throws her bouquet over her head. The woman to catch the bouquet is granted good luck in her future relationships and love life.
Transcript:
- “One of my favorite parts of my wedding was throwing my bouquet. I didn’t have a big wedding, so I only had I think four bridesmaids, but they stood behind me and I threw the bouquet and my best friend from college caught it. She was so excited. And then, just a couple years later, I was in her wedding, so I guess it really does provide good luck.”
Collector’s Comments:
- I find it especially interesting that this tradition is one of the informant’s favorites because it isn’t centered on the new couple. The idea of giving some of your good luck to one of your friends is fun and shows the way in which people celebrate their marriage with their friends and family, not only their significant other.
Collector’s Name: Bethany Burns
Tags/Keywords:
- Customary Lore
- Bride’s bouquet