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Music as Communication within Families
Music as Communication within Families
Informant information:
Mary Kate resides in Andover, Massachusetts. She has a daughter who has an undiagnosed developmental disorder. Her daughter is nine years old and participates in the” My Own Voice” choir, a choir for children with special needs in Andover.
Type of lore: Customary
Language: English
Country of Origin: United States of America
Social / Cultural Context:
Mary Kate and her husband Neal often sing to their daughter as a way to communicate with her. Other people in their daughter’s life use this technique as well, since her developmental disorder makes it more difficult for her to communicate using spoken language.
This use of music as a form of communication was something we found to be consistent across many families with children who have special needs.
Informant’s comments:
Music has always been used by many people in [our daughter’s] life to communicate and interact with her. As you do with all babies, Neal and I sang to [her] as we cuddled and held her close to sooth and help her sleep. [Her] grandmothers also did the same thing when holding her close. What is unique with [our daughter] is that even though she is almost 10 years old we still do the same thing.
[She] often times still drifts off to sleep with the “soothing ” tones of me or Neal (and trust me we cannot sing) in her ear. The songs vary based on her mood and how long we are singing. Neal and I both sing songs that we heard from our parent. We sing songs from movies and musicals right now Mary Poppins is a preferred choice. We make up songs to melodies that she knows and use current information to keep her engaged such as what happened that day or what is happening in the future. I even sing commercial ditties the oscar mayer wiener song is popular as is the oscar mayer bologna song.
Songs can be used as a reward as well. [She] has a token board at school and if she complies with the rules and expectations she receives positive marks throughout the day. If she receives enough checks she earns the opportunity to pick something from the treasure chest. When she gets in the car at parent pick up, if she has a good day (earned treasure chest) I sing this song… I’m proud of you. I’m proud of you. I hope that you are proud of you too! [Our daughter] loves this and beams while I am singing. Honestly, 99% of the tangible rewards from the treasure chest are forgotten and returned to school. She really is motivated by the song.
Collector’s comments:
We found this behavior of communicating through song to be a piece of customary folklore because it was something we saw consistently used across multiple families with children with special needs.
Because of the unique nature of certain developmental disorders, we saw the use of music to be an effective mode of communication between parents and their atypical children. This mode of communication is customary because of the way that parents of children with special needs share this technique with each other.
Tags/Keywords: Music, Communication, Custom, Special needs, family
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The Recon Creed
Title: The Recon Creed
Informant info: Graham “Ossie” Osborn. Informant attends Dartmouth College in Hanover, NH as a United States Marine Corps Veteran. Informant was a member of the First Reconnaissance Battalion.
Type of lore: Customary/Verbal, Tradition, Ritual, Song
Language: English
Country of Origin: USA
Social / Cultural Context: Informant was interviewed at Dartmouth College. Informant was asked about his a unit song or chant. Informant was in the Marines in the First Recon Battalion is their is their battalion creed.
Associated file: https://www.dropbox.com/s/z1us1frzhrn0u2t/IMG_7545.MOV?dl=0
Transcript: Item: [I have recorded the item exactly how it was told to me in the interview]: There was not a song, but there was the “Recon Creed.” It is hard for me to remember, but it is every single every single word begins with it. So “R” was realizing this was my choice and my choice alone. The Recon Creed is out there just like the Ranger Creed for the Army. It is important for a lot of people and I knew it backwards and forwards 10 years ago.
Informant’s comments: Joked about how it is one of those things you say so many times, but then you can’t actually remember it when you try.
Collector’s comments: Informant had a certain cadence to his voice when he began to share the chant.
Unit Song: Boots, Boots, Boots
Title: Unit Song: Boots, Boots, Boots
Informant info: Matt Menezes. Informant attends Dartmouth College in Hanover, NH as a United States Army Veteran. Informant was a member of the 82nd Airborne Division and deployed twice to Afghanistan as well as spent two years as a drill sergeant for basic combat training.
Type of lore: Customary/ Verbal, Tradition, Song, Lyrics, Chants
Language: English
Country of Origin: USA
Social / Cultural Context: Informant was interviewed at Dartmouth College. Informant was asked about any songs that they sung during their time in boot camp or while serving abroad. The informant laughed before they began speaking saying he didn’t remember all the words. The lyrics discuss the life in which the 82nd Airborne unit troops lived.
Associated file:
https://www.dropbox.com/s/11vv5a27kzlycgq/Dartmouth_Folklore_Collections_Matt_Menezes.mp4?dl=0
Transcript: [I have recorded the item exactly how it was told to me in the interview]: There is a song related to my unit. I don’t remember all of it, but I remember that it goes something like this: Put on your boots, boots, boots, and parachutes, chutes chutes, we’re going up, up up , we’re going down, down down, we’re all-American and proud to be. That’s all I remember.
Informant’s comments: He sang lots of songs during his time in the military, but did not remember the others or the words.
Collector’s comments: Informant was nervous to sing, but had a smile on his face. He also did the arm motion associated with the song. His arm at a right angle swinging across his body.
Jodie
Title: Jodie
Informant info: Informant requested to remain anonymous. Informant attends Dartmouth College in Hanover, NH as a United States Army Veteran. Informant enlisted in the Army in 2005 and was a member of the Army Infantry 10th Mountain Division of Fort Drum, New York. Informant served in Iraq from 2006 to 2007. Informant is 28 years old.
Type of lore: Customary/ Verbal, Tradition, Song
Language: English
Country of Origin: USA
Social / Cultural Context: Informant was interviewed at Dartmouth College. Informant was asked about any songs that they sung during their time in boot camp or while serving abroad. Informant spent childhood in the Northeastern United States and feels a lot of hostility toward the Midwestern United States. Informant mentioned that they sing lots of songs revolving around a character named Jodie. This character represented the guy that comes into your social and family contexts while a soldier is deployed and takes your girlfriend or has sex with your mother.
Associated file: Informant requested to remain completely anonymous.
Transcript:
[I have recorded the item exactly how it was told to me in the interview]: Uhh there are a lot of songs. A lot of them will refer to this Jodie. Jodie is like this name, I don’t know why its called Jodie so don’t ask… Uhh Jodie’s like the name of the person that’s in Dear John letters you know, um Jodie’s the guy that comes and steals your girlfriend or fucks your wife or your mom or or whatever. Uh there’s lots of songs about Jodie while we are marching or running and what not. I don’t know why that’s the device chosen to motivate so many soldiers but it’s a high testosterone environment and its also a very simple environment, mostly because of all the dumb southern farmers and Midwesterners that can really relate to shooting the guy that’s fucking your wife. Shot guns and heartbreak and trucks and dogs and tobacco and whiskey sort of thing. But yeah those songs
Informant’s comments: Informant mentioned that the figure of Jodie is taken very seriously and that are a number of songs that involve his character. Informant suggested that I search the internet for some examples and mentioned that “chances are they were sung during my time in the military.” Informant also mentioned that they don’t understand why this motivates soldiers but attests that it does.
Collector’s comments: After informant sang a previous song, they became more serious and talked about a character in many songs named Jodie. The overall attitude was contrasted greatly as frustration and a lower tone of voice.